Why Traditional English Classes Rarely Build Confidence..

You know the scene: your child aces every English test at school—but clams up the moment someone asks them a question in real life. If that feels familiar, you’re not alone. The truth is, traditional English classes are often built around memorization, worksheets, and rigid rules. They teach accuracy—but not confidence.

As a mentor, I’ve seen firsthand how children can become fluent in structure, but not in speech. That’s because they’re taught to “get it right,” not to explore, express, or enjoy the language. And let’s be honest—how many of us feel inspired by a grammar worksheet?

Research backs this up. Dr. Susan Engel, an educational psychologist, wrote in 2022 that language learning is emotional and social, not just academic. Confidence doesn’t come from mastering every tense. It grows when a child feels safe to take risks—when making a mistake doesn’t feel like failing.

At Orion Club, we go beyond grammar drills. We build spaces where kids laugh, role-play, ask big questions, and talk about things that matter to them. When language is rooted in curiosity and joy, fluency follows naturally.

Bring the Confidence Home: Ideas for Parents

You don’t need fancy tools to start. Just connection and curiosity.

  • Talk during daily routines: Describe dinner ingredients in English. Ask your child, “What should we name this salad?”
  • Storytelling play: Let them be the superhero, the chef, or the shopkeeper. Don’t correct—just play.
  • Switch the roles: Ask them to “teach you” new English words. Watch their confidence bloom.

Reflection Moment

When does your child enjoy using English most? What are they doing? Can you recreate that more often?

At Orion, we believe in creating a world where language is lived, not studied. Because when kids feel free to express themselves, confidence isn’t taught—it’s discovered.